Thursday, July 31, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-31
Are your thoughts toxic or helpful?
Are your thoughts mean or friendly?
Are your thoughts poison or medicine?
Are your thoughts diseased or nurturing?

Are your thoughts venomous or uplifting?

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-30
The world judges by esthetics or beauty, which leads to false praise and condemnation.
The world judges by esthetics or beauty, which leads to misperception and misinterpretation.
The world judges by esthetics or beauty, which leads to rationalization and justification for anything that has a so-called happy ending.
The world judges by esthetics or beauty, which are standards that do not have the insight, depth, or wisdom of ethics or the universal.

The world judges by esthetics or beauty, which leads to false morals and values that do not understand or relate to the commitments, results, and integrity of ethics.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-29
You try to end your ego pain or psychological pain by killing your conscience, which only makes your conscience more active.
You try to end your ego pain or psychological pain by avoiding, distracting, and escaping your mind, which only makes your mind hyperactive.
You try to end your ego pain or psychological pain by engaging in addictive behaviors, which only makes your ego pain use your additive behaviors against you.
You try to end your ego pain or psychological pain by becoming lost in politics, work, romance, fantasy, or seeking, which only makes your ego pain more acute when you are not immersed in some activity.

You try to end your ego pain or psychological pain by killing your religious beliefs believing that your pain comes from them, which only makes your ego pain find other sources for justifying and rationalizing that you are somehow inferior.

Monday, July 28, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-28
If you define a problem well enough, then you give birth to its solution.
If you work on the wrong problem, then you create more problems.
In order to define a problem accurately, you first must be willing to accept whatever the problem will reveal.
If you work on the symptoms instead of the underlying problem, then you safeguard and secure the problem.

The three stages of problem solving are always the same and always dependent upon the preceding stages to be effective: recognize, remove, and replace aka the 3Rs.

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-27
Classism is destroying democracy.
Classism is more prevalent than racism.
Classism includes prejudice, discrimination, intolerance, and bigotry.
Classism is a bigger problem than racism, sexism, ageism, or culturalism.

Classism serves the corporations and rich through buying politicians, media, and propaganda mechanisms.

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-26
Therapy can be done as comedy.
Therapy can be done as comedy, because what most people are disturbing themselves over is nonsense.
Therapy can be done as comedy, because most people are taking seriously things that will not matter in a hundred years.
Therapy can be done as comedy, because being able to laugh at yourself helps you to adjust and adapt more willingly and effectively.

Therapy can be done as comedy, because comedy helps people to put in perspective their demands and expectations that are disturbing them.

Friday, July 25, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-25
Science barely scratches the surface of life, but fools believe it’s an authority on all of life.
Science has by definition a tiny mindset, but fools believe its mindset contains all of life.
Science has a necessarily small scope and view, but fools believe its scope and view contain all of life.
Science has purposeful limits and boundaries, but fools believe its limits and boundaries must encompass all of life.

Science must focus on the material world in order to be science, but fools believe since the focus of science is on the material world than that is all there can be.

Thursday, July 24, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-24
Ego will never show you the error of its ways.
Ego is not about finding out how it is self-defeating.
Ego is not about revealing its true desires and intentions.
Ego is not about responsibility, accountability, or practicality.

Ego is not about truth, logic, understanding, reasonableness, or rationality.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-23
Ego exists at the expense of everything else.
Ego exists at the expense of your authentic self.
Ego exists at the expense of any contact with reality.
Ego exists at the expense of having authentic relationships.

Ego exists at the expense of the truth about even the slightest of matters if they might reveal anything about ego.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-22
Choice is natural when awareness is free.
Choice is genuine when nothing is hidden.
Choice is authentic when one faces what is.
Choice is spontaneous when all is seen as it is.

Choice is automatic when reality is revealed by the light.

Monday, July 21, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-21
Self-talk is ego-talk.
Self-love is ego-love.
Self-esteem is ego-esteem.
Self-respect is ego-respect.

Self-confidence is ego-confidence.

Sunday, July 20, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-20
I cannot be changed by thinking, but ego is changed by thinking.
I cannot be changed by anyone, but ego can be changed by anyone.
I cannot be changed by change, but ego is often changed by change.
I cannot be changed by anything, but ego can be changed by anything.

I cannot be changed by experience, but ego is often changed by experience.

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-19
Is my thinking, feeling, or behaving this way encouraging coping?
Is my thinking, feeling, or behaving this way promoting problem solving?
Is my thinking, feeling, or behaving this way uplifting for me and others?
Is my thinking, feeling, or behaving this way improving my and other’s attitude?

Is my thinking, feeling, or behaving this way part of the problem or part of the solution?

Friday, July 18, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-18
I can tolerate anything that does not kill me.
I will stop insisting that life is not what it is.
I will stop insisting that people not do what they do.
I can live with any problem that does not kill me.

I will tolerate the views, opinions, and beliefs of others even when they disagree with my own.

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-17
I will reclaim my right of choice by choosing to choose again whenever I want or need to.
I will reclaim my right of choice by choosing to choose again despite my own resistance to changing my mind.
I will reclaim my right of choice by choosing to choose again despite other people’s objections to my change of course or habit.
I will reclaim my right of choice by choosing to choose again whenever I have the insight or intuition that there is a better choice.

I will reclaim my right of choice by choosing to choose again whenever I understand that I have make a wrong, foolish, unwise, or harmful choice.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-16
The loser always has an excuse, not a solution.
The loser is so focused on whining, blaming, and damning that they serve and ensure their own failure.
The loser is more interested in whining, blaming, and damning than improving their own knowledge, awareness, and skills.
The winner takes responsibility for failure, and then adapts and adjusts their responses accordingly.

The winner takes risks, makes mistakes, starts over, and learns from history what to do better next time.

Daily Quotations

2014-07-15
To correct, first accept.
I can accept that life is not under my control.
I can accept anything that I choose to accept.
I can accept that others are not under my control.

I choose to accept reality that I might have better contact with reality.

Monday, July 14, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-14
I will be free of ego to be free to act emotionally responsible.
I accept emotional responsibility as the path to living a mature life.
I will act emotionally responsible so that I can feel powerful and real again.
I will take responsibility for my feelings even when others damn me for them.

I see how absurd it is to try to be responsible for the feelings of others while not being responsible for my own.

Sunday, July 13, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-13
I am as in control of my life as I am responsible for my feelings.
When I blame others for my feelings, then I make myself their puppet.
When I blame society for my feelings, then I make myself the pawn of society.
I am in control of my life, because I am responsible for my feelings.

Others, events, and circumstances are in control of my life when I am not responsible for my feelings.

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-12
The inner dialogue is not a dialogue but only the protraction of knowledge.
The knowledge of something consists in what it should be and what it should not be.
Listening to what something should be and should not be is not a dialogue but only listening to knowledge.
Focusing on what something should not be is not magic that it will either stop something or transform something.

By continuing to focus on the knowledge of what something should not be, you are continuing to serve and reap that.

Friday, July 11, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-11
If you lack support in your life, then find it by first supporting others.
If you lack encouragement in your life, then find it by first encouraging others.
If you lack opportunity in your life, then find it by first offering opportunities to others.
If you lack love or kindness in your life, then find it by first sharing love and kindness with others.

If you lack understanding or tolerance in your life, then find it by first providing understanding and tolerance to others.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-10
I will focus on changing myself, not others since I cannot change them.
I will chose to look at my part in problems before looking at other people’s part.
I will worry about fixing my behavior before worrying about fixing another’s behavior.
If something went wrong, then I will consider how I might change my responses to prevent that mistake next time.

If there is trouble in one of my relationships, then I will focus on how I can improve my responses to improve that relationship.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-09
Kindness is stronger than unkindness.
Kindness is more lastings than unkindness.
Kindness is more effective than unkindness.
Kindness is more fulfilling than unkindness.

Kindness is more powerful than unkindness.

Daily Quotations

2014-07-08
The promise and temptation of unkindness are rich but the results are poor.
The promise of unkindness can never deliver what the action of kindness does.
The temptation of unkindness denies the gains of kindness for the losses of unkindness.
The temptation of unkindness for revenge pleases the ego, not morality, spirituality, or God.

The promise of unkindness to your pride—fails your relationships, maturity, and integrity for ego.

Monday, July 7, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-07
There is pride in unkindness and humility in kindness.
There is ego in unkindness and genuineness in kindness.
There are feelings of superiority in unkindness and feelings of sameness in kindness.
You can gain positive self-esteem by acting unkindly or gain equality by acting kindly.

You can feed your ego by acting unkindly or you can feed your humanity by acting kindly.

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-06
No event is its characteristics.
No event is an understanding of it.
No event is the categorization of that event.
Conceptions of events are conceptions of events.

Comparisons of events are not the events compared.

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-05
The hating is not the hated.
The damning is not the damned.
The reporting is not the reported.
The denouncing is not the denounced.

The condemning is not the condemned.

Friday, July 4, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-04
Can I see how morally wrong it is to damn others just so that my demands are met?
Can I see how morally wrong it is to damn others just so that my politics are supported?
Can I see how morally wrong it is to damn others just so that my opinions are supported?
Can I see how morally wrong it is to damn others just so that my ego and pride are aggrandized?

Can I see how morally wrong it is to damn others just so that my feelings of superiority are increased?

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-03
Do I like my behavior in others?
Would I tolerate my behavior from others?
Do I want others to learn my behavior by copying me?
Would I like me or want to be around me, if I was behaving my normal way?

Is it good that I am teaching by example my behavior to my family and friends?

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-02
Coping is a choice, not an accident.
Coping is the choice to make when problem solving fails.
Coping is required often if you choose to have expectations.
Coping is a set of skills that anyone can choose to learn, but that no one is born with.

Coping is learned; therefore, choose to supplement the coping that you accidentally learned while growing up.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Daily Quotations

2014-07-01
Will my ego pain matter in a hundred years?
My ego soreness is not a call to action for the universe or others.
Convincing others of my ego discomfort cannot force others to comfort me.
Where is it written that making others aware of my ego suffering requires them to fix it?

Trying to cause others to feel pain so that they understand my pain is not the best strategy for gaining comfort and soothing.