- (1) Blocked modeling of same sex parent. You naturally follow your same sex parent to learn how to live in the world. The usual exceptions are if you only have an opposite sex parent and no acceptable same sex role model, or you feel compelled to reject following your same sex parent (various reasons).
- (2) Sensations of same sex. Experience attractive same sex people.
- (3) Reframe reality. Falsely interpret same sex sensations as causing desire (sexual procreation drive).
- (4) Reverse nature. Focus procreation drive on same sex targets.
- (5) Reinforce procreation drive with life force. Make your interest into a passion by putting your life energies behind it.
- (6) Claim it is natural. Find excuses and rationalizations for the perversion of your procreation drive.
- (7) Claim sex is love. Sex is desire. Sex can be coupled with love, but the drive for sex is desire, not love.
- Generally, homosexuality occurs when the procreation drive is thwarted from focusing on the opposite sex, so it reverts to focusing on the same sex. However, some practice homosexuality or bisexuality for social approval.
3D: Daily Dose of Discernment
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Saturday, July 25, 2026
Classic Cause of Homosexuality: 07-25-2026
Friday, July 24, 2026
Your Control Issues: 07-24-2026
- Stop seeking control because only One is in control.
- Stop trying to control your life; instead, surrender your life to His control.
- There is very little that we can control, and few focus on those things while most focus on what they cannot control.
- You can control your attitude, feelings, responses, and what gets to repeat inside. How often do you exercise that control?
- You cannot control the past, present, or future, and most things, because you don’t have power and authority over them. How often do you try to control them anyway?
Thursday, July 23, 2026
Try the Opposite Approach: 07-23-2026
- Instead of seeking who you are, start throwing out who you are not.
- Stop trying to find yourself, and start undressing yourself until you are naked and real.
- Start deleting all your self-concepts and self-images to see what is left after all the disguises are removed.
- You will never find yourself until you negate all the darkness, games, and walls hiding your true character.
- First find out what and who you are not, so that you might walk an honest path to rediscovering what and who you are.
Wednesday, July 22, 2026
Storms Destroy Without Deep Foundations: 07-22-2026
- Let your roots be in the Word of God, so the winds of the world do not break you.
- Let your security be in Jesus the Christ, and none can harm anything but your body.
- You need a solid base in Scripture, and can only develop this by reading quietly on your own.
- Let your foundations be in the teachings of Christ, so the trials and tribulations of the world will not bring your house down.
- The strongest foundations go the deepest into bedrock and make possible skyscrapers; therefore, put your foundations in the ancient values of God.
Tuesday, July 21, 2026
Backward Logic Fails Horribly: 07-21-2026
- Do your feelings originate inside you? If so, then who is inside controlling and influencing them?
- What backward and primitive logic allows people to believe that they can control the feelings of others but not their own?
- How do you imagine that other people invade your heart, soul, and mind to control your feelings? Do they come in through your ears?
- What superstitious forces do you believe in that allow another human being to enter your heart, soul, and mind and control how you feel?
- Can you name the magical power that allows others to take control of your heart, soul, and mind in order to make you feel the way that they want?
Monday, July 20, 2026
Control What You Can: 07-20-2026
- The best expression of powerlessness is “You made me mad.”
- The best expression of emotional manipulation is “How do you think that makes me feel?”
- The weakest individual is the one whose responses are determined by circumstances and others.
- You relate maturely when you focus on changing your responses to others rather than on others’ responses to you.
- You are most effective when you focus on changing your responses to the world rather than on the world’s responses to you.
Sunday, July 19, 2026
Choose Where to Fortify: 07-19-2026
- Salute God, not yourself or the world.
- Stand for God, not yourself or the world.
- Submit to God, not yourself or the world.
- Suffer for God, not yourself or the world.
- Stoop before God, not yourself or the world.
- Support God’s word, not yours or the world’s.
- Subject yourself to God, not yourself or the world.
- Steel your faith in God, not in yourself or the world.
- Succumb to God’s way, not your or the world’s way.
- Sustain your faith in God, not in yourself or the world.
- Substantiate God’s teachings, not yours or the world’s.
- Surrender to God, not your desires or those of the world.
- Strengthen your faith in God, not in yourself or the world.
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