Whining, Blaming, & Damning: 09-01-2025

1. Whining is annoying by design and is typically a self-absorbed or self-centered activity.
2. Whining’s main goal and, often, main accomplishment is to gain attention without providing solutions.
3. Whining eventually becomes a force for demoralizing, demotivating, and quitting.
4. Blaming shifts responsibility onto others and often unfairly.
5. Blaming is often used to avoid accountability and shift the focus elsewhere.
6. Chronic blaming has the power to destroy relationships over time.
7. Damning is typically unfairly judgmental and dehumanizing.
8. Damning seeks to harm others, but usually hurts the soul of the one damning.
9. Damning is not constructive and offers no options for recovery, reconciliation, redemption, rehabilitation, or restoration.