Choices Are Rulers, Not Servants: 12-23-2025

1. Your choices become you because they claim your identity.
2. You can follow your choices, goals, and willings, but you cannot control them.
3. You can follow your choices, goals, and willings, but you cannot change them.
4. You can either follow your choices, goals, and willings, or switch from them to others.
5. The only magic in counseling is to practice switching channels (beliefs, choices, thoughts).
6. You follow your choices and are bound to them once made because you identify with them.
7. Your choices become your will and are not open to being chosen again, as if they were not already permanent.
8. There is no stopping thoughts, changing thoughts, or controlling thoughts, but only not listening to them because you are listening to other thoughts, because you switched channels.