- Worrying about your idea of a person is not the same as worrying about the actual person.
- Feeling depressed about your idea of yourself is not the same as being depressed about who you really are.
- Hating someone in your mind is not the same as hating a living, breathing human being.
- Insecurity born from comparing your “inferior” self-image to someone else’s “superior” one is not just painful—it is fundamentally insane. It has no basis in reality.
- Most of what you think is nothing, because you are thinking about ideas of people, places, and things instead of the things themselves.
- Most of what you say is nothing, because you are speaking about ideas rather than reality.
- Test this for yourself: Can you breathe an idea? Can you drink or eat one? Can you feed the starving with the idea of food? Clothe the naked with the idea of clothing? House the homeless with the idea of shelter? Politicians constantly try exactly that—and we all know how spectacularly it fails.
- Reality is not optional. The moment you stop confusing your mental maps with the actual territory, your life becomes lighter, clearer, and far more sane.
© 2026 by Kevin Everett FitzMaurice. Daily quotations cover topics crucial to your emotional and behavioral health, including emotional and psychological skills, psychotherapy, psychology, philosophy, spirituality, General Semantics, Eastern psychology and philosophy, meditation, flow, social commentary, responsibility, authenticity, identity, and the self. Visit https://kevinfitzmaurice.com or Amazon and Google Play for Kevin's 75 books in ebook, paperback, hardback, and audiobook formats.
Monday, May 25, 2026
Ideas Are Not Reality: 05-25-2026
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